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Unwelcome Change After 50

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As we get older, most of us experience changes.  Listing all potential changes one might notice would make for an extremely long post.  Since 40, I have gone through more changes than I even care to list, but there is one change that has become apparent that I don’t like.  It is no longer being an “up and at ’em” morning person.

During the summers when I was a child on the family farm, I’d wake early and want to get up and going.  Often I’d dress and walk to the milk barn at 4:30 or 5:00 in the morning to join my Dad. In college, 8:00 a.m. classes were preferred by me  while other students I knew avoided 8:00 am. classes like the plague. If chaperons were needed for a lock-in, I’d much rather get up and work the 3:00 a.m. to 7:00 a.m. shift than the 7:00 p.m. to 11:00 p.m. shift. Just 10 years ago, I could be at the gym by 5:30 a.m. before going to work. Not much over a year ago, while still teaching, I was usually in my room by 6:30 a.m, but I will admit that my body was beginning to rebel at that time. 

To my chagrin, I am having difficulty getting up and going to make the 8:00 a.m. exercise classes I want to attend. While I used to never sleep past 7:00 a.m. unless sick, now I’m as likely to wake at 7:00 a.m. as I am at 6:00 a.m. unless an alarm is set.  Once I awake, it seems that my body needs additional time to rev up.  My mind kicks into gear reasonably fast, but the idea of jumping straight into the shower and then “hitting the floor running” as soon as out and dressed is repugnant to me – or to be more accurate – to my body.

I went to bed last night with full intention of getting up, dressed, and to the 8:00 a.m. strength and conditioning class at FiftyForward.  I woke at 7:02 a.m., and with rush-hour traffic, I have to allow 30 minutes driving time, even though it is a 10 – 15 minute drive normally.  There was no way I was going to take care of the dog, dress, eat, and be there by 8:00 a.m..  Now, in my defense, since the dog is on meds that make him drink frequently, which means he pees frequently, he woke me every two hours to go out last night. Still, it is more of a rule than an exception now that it takes me about two hours after waking before I am truly ready to “face the world for the day.”

Is this a result of increasing age?  Is it a bad habit? Could forcing myself to get to these particular classes eventually cause my body to be more agreeable to the intents of my mind? Grrrr – I want the energy and physical ability that I had at 35. Hey! I’m not being greedy; I didn’t wish for the energy and physical ability I had at 2o. I find this situation frustrating right now, but I’m not sure if it is better to push myself or to attempt to adjust to this change.  What do you think?

Do any of you find yourself having a harder time getting your body to cooperate?  What have you done to overcome?

Have a blessed and happy day!

Angela

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Hometown Tourist

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Do you want to know of a way to have a truly great time without going far, far away?  One way to do this is to act like you are a tourist in your own town. The HH and I had a blast today!  He and I went on a Hick Chicks Bus Tour of Nashville, and it was a true HOOT!  Now, if you’ve been reading my blogs, you know that I love saving money, so you will not be surprised to learn that we got a deal through a Living Social. Last weekend, I made reservations for us to use our deal vouchers and take the tour today.  It was awesome.  Not only did we have a great tour guide and learn things that we did not know about Nashville, we laughed so hard that I actually ached from laughing.  Christy, our guide, was knowledgeable and funny.  In addition, to the fantastic tour, we were lucky enough to be on the outing with a bunch of hilarious folks, several of whom joined us for lunch.

Here are some of the things we did.

Hick Chicks Tour Bus, Nashville, TN

Hick Chicks Tour Bus, Nashville, TN

Christy, our tour guide

Christy, our tour guide

First, we met our tour guide and boarded the bus in front of Dick’s Last Resort.  We drove throughout Nashville from the Riverfront area out to West End and visited a variety of other places in the city.  We made a couple of stops that gave us a chance to get off the bus to look around, get something to eat or drink, or go to the “loo.” One of our stops was at the Bootlegger’s Inn, and here we sampled moonshine.  Yep, that is what I said, moonshine. We also enjoyed the music of an energetic country band.

Sm glass: Watermelon Moonshine Larger glassWhite Lightening Lemonade Bootlegger's Inn, Nashville, TN

Watermelon Moonshine and White Lightening Lemonade
Bootlegger’s Inn, Nashville, TN

Country Band at Bootlegger's Inn

Country Band at Bootlegger’s Inn

Once the tour was over, Christy gave us all discount coupons for several downtown eateries.  The HH and I had already discussed the potential of eating at Dick’s Last Resort, so when we got a coupon for Dick’s, that sealed the deal for our lunch meal.

The HH and I thought we had a good time on the bus tour, but the fun continued at lunch since about six of our tour-mates joined us at a table in the restaurant.  Now, if you’ve not been to Dick’s Last Resort, it can be hilarious, but once again, it is mature fun.  I do not recommend taking the young ones there.

Our newly-met friends mostly originated from Indiana.  Two now live in Brentwood, Tennessee, and one lives in Cullman, Alabama.  Five ladies and one gent, all of whom enjoy having a good time – and are a little more into drinking than the HH and I.  If you happen to know the policy of servers’ behavior toward customers at Dick’s, then you may appreciate this comment.  If not, this will fly right over your head.  Our tour-mates were more than a match for our servers; they gave better than they got. LOL

Here are some pictures from our rowdy lunch-time fun.  My husband and I had a blast with some truly nice people, most all of us around 50 I might add, who know how to have a good time; they kept us smiling.

Our Server (Yes, she is sitting on our table.)

Our Server (Yes, she is sitting on our table.)

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We all looked like these folks before lunch was done.

Some of our tour-mates

Some of our tour-mates

Get out in your area and be a tourist, have fun, meet new people, and love living life after 50. Have a blessed and happy day!

Angela

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Goals After 50

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Goals.  That’s something that has been on my mind quite a bit, and I have set a few goals for myself.  I don’t know if I can meet them or not, but I have found that I do better when I have a target to motivate me.

If you look at the picture in the header of this blog, you will see me on an exciting adventure in 1996; I’m atop Sulfur Mountain, Banff National Park, Alberta, Canada.  Getting to where I can do such things again is a huge goal for me.  Now, don’t get me wrong, as you will see from postings to be made to the Travel portion of this site, the HH and I enjoy going to quite a few exciting and enchanting places; it is my goal physically to be where I was, if not better, than when this picture was taken.  Putting this shot on the front of the site is my visual reminder of a goal.

Goals set for myself over the next year include losing weight, getting off all (or a least most) of the meds I take, doing a run/walk 5K, getting our new and smaller home fully organized, travel as much as I can, spend quality time with family, and discover my next career path.

What are your goals and how do you plan to attain them?

Have a blessed and happy day!

Angela

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What are your thoughts about life after 50?

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Over the last year, in particular, I have done a lot of thinking about what should be my focus now that I am firmly past the 50 mark. As a part of this thought process, my mind has certainly wandered back over the years that have already been lived and filed away under “past.” Is this something about which other 50-somethings contemplate, or am I alone in this regard?

Ten of the last eleven years, my existence revolved around two things: my family and “my kids” at school. I really didn’t have a life beyond that except when my husband and I would fly away on a much deserved and desired travel adventure. Now, I find myself unemployed (giving up my teaching position by choice to deal with family related events), downsized, and with a nest that is empty save the family dog. What’s next? To quote Hamlet in Act 3, Scene 1 of the play by the same name, “That is the question.”  While my conundrum is not whether to live or die, it is how to choose to live until I die, which I do hope is not for quite some time.

So, my question to you, should anyone find this new blog site, what are your thoughts about living life after 50?  What wisdom do you have to share with me?

May you have a happy and blessed day!

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